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CNN: Montclair Moms Gone Wild?

CNN article cites Montclair's cheating spouses.

 

 

An article published this week on CNN.com highlighted a phase that—apparently—many affluent moms in Brooklyn are going through dubbed "the 40-year-old reversion." In other words, the tedium of raising children is driving moms to go out at night and party as though they were in their 20s again. These days, the article says, misbehaving among moms has become a little bit less like misbehaving.

But the article goes on to say that, of course, it's not just a New York City phenomenon.

The article says: "When having dinner at a pub in Montclair, New Jersey, my girlfriend, a local, started pointing out patrons she knew who were at the bar cheating on their spouses. They were all parents and none of them seemed to be looking over their shoulders. Later she introduced me to a couple with kids who decided to make their marriage an open one after the wife's affair with a neighbor was exposed."

The author of the CNN piece, entertainment writer Shanon Cook, says she never expected to go out nearly as much as she does after becoming a mom.

"If there's an uptick in Moms Gone Wild behavior among the Brooklyn co-op set, it wouldn't be anything new. Heck, if 'Mad Men' is any measure, this generation's mommies were regularly tucked into bed by parents already three sheets to the wind before heading out to the neighborhood key party."

Cook also notes that, to save money on sitters, it is indeed often just one parent who goes out.

"After a few rounds at the bar, mom might start to actually feel a little on the single side. And her susceptibility to do something nutty might correlate to the challenging—even desperate—day she had."

What do you think? What Montclair pub could she be referring to? Let us know in the comments section below. For a look at the complete article, go here.

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Paula Tillman

10:43 am on Thursday, July 26, 2012

I read that article yesterday and thought this generation isn't doing something that hasn't been done before my moms. There was just descretion used 'back in the day.'

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Robin Hoffman

11:39 am on Thursday, July 26, 2012

Maybe they're all just that bored and don't care if they're found out. Pretty sad.

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Meg Beattie Patrick

12:24 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012

Betrayal in a marriage is unspeakably painful to an unsuspecting and trusting spouse. Why people engage in it, I've never understood. It damages lives and whole families. Is selfishness really worth it for these people? Sad.

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Audrey Lynn Wanich

1:21 pm on Thursday, July 26, 2012

Could be these are not new behaviors at all, just continuation of old patterns spilling over.
It's an age old "problem".

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Amanda M

2:37 pm on Friday, July 27, 2012

Why are going out and cheating being mentioned as if they are inevitably connected?! I love getting out with fiends, but none of us are thinking or looking to cheat! We're looking for some cocktails, laughs with friends and time to unwind. If you're going out to cheat, there are seriously bigger issues. Girls' nights can actually be just that...and fabulous.

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